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Malcolm @ cruisepage
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posted 11-26-2006 01:41 PM      Profile for Malcolm @ cruisepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
We occasionally hear about security problems caused by teens on cruises, well here's some proof posted on Utube by the trouble makers themselves:

Security Problems

Part 2

It certainly makes my blood boil!


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posted 11-26-2006 01:51 PM      Profile for nycruiser   Email nycruiser   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
That is horrible and I have seen similiar incidents on NCL Dawn and Carnival Destiny. And then if you tell the parents they dont care or they can't beleive it's their kids. As a side note I am becoming a teacher so I work part time at this after school program and you can't beleive how the parents act. You tell them their kid did something and they are ready to kill me! I think some people lack accountability these days.
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posted 11-26-2006 01:51 PM      Profile for eroller     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I say throw their asses off in the next port of call. This type of video only reinforces my preference for not cruising with large numbers of kids onboard.

Ernie


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posted 11-26-2006 02:00 PM      Profile for PamM   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Actually the videos are so bad I really don't have a clue what the heck is going on.

Pam


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posted 11-26-2006 02:38 PM      Profile for jeremya   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
It would be politically incorrect to make comments about the participants from this video, but suffice to say, I was not surprised by them. The title of the video is a dead giveaway of the mentality and social class of those who filmed it. Petulant teenagers with no respect or social graces what so ever.
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posted 11-26-2006 02:49 PM      Profile for Maasdam   Author's Homepage   Email Maasdam   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
As kicking moment fore security and the captain. The next port of call even without touching the gangway with there feet a big kick under there ......... And a big claim by the line to compensate the fore ruin the mood of other passengers a/b vessel. And above all a life time ban on cruising fore each and everyone in the group.

Greetings Ben.


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posted 11-26-2006 02:52 PM      Profile for Pascal     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by PamM:
Actually the videos are so bad I really don't have a clue what the heck is going on.

Pam


Oh, I'm relieved. My understanding of English language has nothing to do with the fact that I didn't get what it's all about !


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Ernst
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posted 11-26-2006 03:01 PM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Giving that it is not clear what actually happened I wonder why everone is so upset. One can not see too much in this video.
There is a group of teenagers in an empty public room - and I would not have that much of a problem with that.
As said, they are passengers and as long as they do not disturb anyone (the room seems to be empty) or ruin anything it should be fine. We of course do not know what happened before - but this is why one can not come to any conclusion based on this video.

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Malcolm @ cruisepage
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posted 11-26-2006 04:36 PM      Profile for Malcolm @ cruisepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Ernst:
Giving that it is not clear what actually happened I wonder why everone is so upset.

Yes it's not entirely clear what has happened, but I thought the video would make an interesting talking point.

I assume that the security guard has good reason to talk to the youths as they have/are making a nuisance of themselves. Yes Ernst, the public room might well be pretty empty, but passengers may have left due to the disruption or are avoiding using it. It could of course be 3.00am in the morning? We don't know.

The above is just my speculation, but the fact is that the youths are clearly not showing any respect (a word they love to use rather than show) and are not doing what they are asked to by the security guard. They are clearly making fun of him. I think the term 'Curfew' is mentioned? The security guard is asking them to leave the area, possibly to go to their cabins?

The youths clearly think it was unfair action from RCI as they posted the video.

The comments on utube are interesting: One person asks "Why are you acting like assh*l*s? The person who posted the video replies"Cause we can, its called having fun a cruise".

For the record RCI rules say: Individuals whose behavior demonstrates: (1) Minor Infractions:....(i.e., making the cruise vacation experience unpleasant for other guests)...and the minor infractions three-step process (Warning, Second Warning, Action) will be enacted.

If numerous minor infractions are noted, the ship's management reserves the right to enact a 1:00 am curfew for all minors 17 years of age and younger, unless they are participating in organized shipboard activities.

[ 11-26-2006: Message edited by: Malcolm @ cruisepage ]


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posted 11-26-2006 05:09 PM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
As you say - all this is speculation.
We DO NOT KNOW whether the security guard had a good reason or not - and it is entirely possible that he had no good reason and just been called by some 'picky' passenges - as it is possible that these 'cute' chidren were loud etc.)

The point is :We do not know the time, circumstances or what happened before. All we see is a video where someone is arguing with this guard - this is 'loud' confusing etc. - but I do not see anything IN this video which indicates that these teenagers did something 'frobidden' - nothing justifying some comments above.

Yes, I understand that there is maybe a suspicion that they 'misbehaved' - I also understand why the guard might have been nervous - BUT THIS IS NOT PROOF THAT SOMETHING happened. 'Hanging around' near a swiming pool is no crime - like it or not.

[ 11-26-2006: Message edited by: Ernst ]


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posted 11-26-2006 05:12 PM      Profile for eroller     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Ernst:

Yes, I understand that there is maybe a suspicion that they 'misbehaved' - I also understand why the guard might have been nervous - BUT THIS IS NOT PROOF THAT SOMETHING happened. 'Hanging around' near a swiming pool is no crime - like it or not.



Who needs proof? Just where do you think you are living!!!???

I still say throw their asses overboard!

Ernie


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Ernst
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posted 11-26-2006 05:19 PM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by eroller:


Who needs proof? Just where do you think you are living!!!??? [...]


Don't remind me of that.
Editing ship videos all day made me forget.

Nevertheless, just keep it in context - being a bit loud or using a certain language does not constitue a 'crime'. I met many passengers (to stay with ships) whose behaviour I did not like - but this is not necessarily a crime.

We see avideo where they are in a 'loud' (perkily?) argument with the security guard - maybe the guard is right - maybe the children are right and 'defend' themself - but I do not see how they spoiled someone's vacation nor a reason to remove them from the ship.

[ 11-26-2006: Message edited by: Ernst ]


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posted 11-26-2006 06:01 PM      Profile for Cunard Fan   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Sadly todays society (at least in the US) does not teach kids, especailly teens to respect their elders. If anything society teaches disrespect. Kids (not all kids) are constantly being disrespected my their elders (not all elders) and therefore they learn to disrespect back. The whole situation is sad. Kids live in a very disrespectfull world and that makes it harder to grow up as a respectfull person.
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posted 11-26-2006 06:18 PM      Profile for eroller     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Cunard Fan:
Kids live in a very disrespectfull world and that makes it harder to grow up as a respectfull person.


Unfortunately it's not just kids that live in a disrespectful world, it's pretty much everyone. We (at least in the Western world) live very much in a "me" oriented society, and the attitude is everyone else can go to hell.

Ernie


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posted 11-26-2006 06:41 PM      Profile for Malcolm @ cruisepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Ernst:
All we see is a video where someone is arguing with this guard... but I do not see anything IN this video which indicates that these teenagers did something 'frobidden'.

Personally I think kids arguing with 'authority' is wrong and is 'forbidden' in my book! I'm not anti-kid, but when I cruise I do not wish to hear a 'gang' of kids (or adults for that matter) arguing with anyone!

Don't you think that videoing the event and posting it on the internet takes it to a whole different level? RCI could hardly post any security footage that may exist, of the kids causing a nuisance (if the kids did) on U-tube, could they?

However, I do agree with you Ernst that we do not know anymore facts than that. So 'end of story', as Pam would say.

[ 11-26-2006: Message edited by: Malcolm @ cruisepage ]


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posted 11-26-2006 06:48 PM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Maybe they were right - maybe not.
End of story.

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posted 11-26-2006 06:51 PM      Profile for Pascal     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
By the way, has someone recognized the ship where all this takes place ?
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posted 11-26-2006 06:56 PM      Profile for eroller     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by Pascal:
By the way, has someone recognized the ship where all this takes place ?


I believe MARINER OF THE SEAS.

Ernie


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posted 11-26-2006 06:58 PM      Profile for dmwnc1   Email dmwnc1   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
What do you expect when you have a generation of teens whose role models can no longer be their part-time parents, but whatever MTV video artist happens to be in the Top 10 or rap artist whose album or songs has the most socially unredemming values. It's all about 'gettin paid', bling, the fastest nicest car, and most off-the-hook clothes and disrespectful attitutes. They seem to thrive off of materialism and disrespect.

The video is very disburbing. Yes, we dont know what what the root cause of the incident. I wish the cruise lines could hire better trained and more authoritative security, and not the poor unfortunate rent-a-cops that patrol the halls and public rooms. I am sure they go through some type of training, but are that trained how to handle roaming bands of American delinquent adolescents?

The fact that the kids laughed at them the whole time, made fun of him behind his back, called him a 'gringo', and flashed 'hood' signs and refused to follow an authorities instructions shows that the rent-a-cop barley garnered, or demanded, any respect with his seemingly laxidasical attitude.


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posted 11-26-2006 11:16 PM      Profile for Cunard Fan   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I would not want to be a security guard. The whole situation with todays kids is sad to me.
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posted 11-26-2006 11:26 PM      Profile for Ernst   Author's Homepage   Email Ernst   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
This poor man (the guard) is certainly not the be envied.
No doubt that these kids did not behave as one would expect - but this can happen with in a group of kids (O.K. - not with all kids ) and we of course do not know how it came to that. (maybe they have ben provoked - which is not justifying the behavior but may explain it - remember - we talk about kids!)
Altough this is not adequate - even if the kids were right - it is FAR from a behaviour which would justify to remove them from the ship. (again: this is a bunch of kids!)
Also, 'bad manners' are not good but not always a crime - and again, it's kids we talk about.

Posting this clip on the net certainly brought it to another level - I wonder whether the parents are aware of that.

[ 11-26-2006: Message edited by: Ernst ]


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posted 11-27-2006 05:35 AM      Profile for Malcolm @ cruisepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
quote:
Originally posted by dmwnc1:
....refused to follow an authorities instructions shows that the rent-a-cop barley garnered, or demanded, any respect with his seemingly laxidasical attitude.

For much of my career I have worked with British 16 to 18 year olds and upwards. Enforcing discipline is not easy. In general they do not like authority figures and being ‘told-off’. Not all kids are bad of course. However, in a gang, their hormone-fuelled reflex action to being told-off is nearly always to verbally retaliate.

Outside my office was a staircase. Young people would often sit on the stairs en mass blocking the entire stair case. Occasionally I would say “Hey guys, please do not sit on the stairs, you are blocking them”. Their reply would often be something like “Whatever” or “So who the hell are you to tell us what to do”, or simply “F Off”. Rarely did they move without an unpleasant confrontation.

The security guard is trying to solve the problem (or perceived problemm Ernst) in a ‘laid back’ manner and not be over confrontational or too authoritive. The kids are also videoing him!

If he did go in ‘harder’ he would probably get punched. If he tried to defend himself he would be suspended for assaulting a minor – who may be 6ft tall.

It’s an impossible job.

[ 11-27-2006: Message edited by: Malcolm @ cruisepage ]


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posted 11-27-2006 12:53 PM      Profile for feargus   Email feargus   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
As has been said it is impossible to know what started this incident but i do know that when i was younger if an adult told me to do something i would do it. yes in this case i would have left and yes i may have waited 5 to 10 mins and gone back but i would not have started gobbing off at the security bloke. i am going to guess that he was either Filipino or Nepalese. i did notice (maybe misheard) but one or more of the youths saying '50' to the guy, as i understand this is a racial slur and i am sure if the situation were reversed we would be hearing a lot more about it. In my opinion people on ships must listen to the people in charge just as we all must listen to cabin attendants on planes. if you refuse you are off, simple.
Premier had plenty of similar problems and got around them by offering off duty NY cops free cruises for them and their families in return for a few nights police work (unarmed) seemed to work quite well.

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posted 11-27-2006 01:46 PM      Profile for PamM   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
50? It almost seems sometimes that every word in the English language is offensive to someone or other if they want it to be. The language evolves daily almost.

Pam


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posted 11-27-2006 04:41 PM      Profile for feargus   Email feargus   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
i agree Pam, it does seem that i will soon have to learn another language so as not to cause offense to someone or something somewhere that may find what i say offensive. at the risk of offending someone i will say no more! and if anyone is offended by my assumption that i might offend them by saying they could be offended i am very sorry.. yes all very silly these days isn't it.
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